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Foolish Love

hello sir .i love a girl,her name is ______ ,she also loves ma very much,we can't leave
without eachother,bt i was poor compared to their family.im 22 nd completed my bparmacy .it takes me minimum 2 more years to settle in life .and she already started doing her mba from a very good bschool..
their parents are willing to get her married in next two years .
how should i get her.wr are not willing to get married through other ways i ...i am not intrested in her dads money or her dads name .i even tried to die by sleeping pills and toilet cleanesr .i had a brother .love him very much . if she gets married to some other person im ready to die.wanted to make her parents agree our love .pleas sir give me sugestion ..
waiting for ur reply

Hi,

First of all HAVE GUTS TO LIVE. If you are ready to die if she doesn't become a part of your life then probably you don;t deserve her.

Do you have parents at home, brother and other people who love you, think about them before you do any foolish act.

I am not interested in giving you a solution because you are not worth it at this point of time and you are not ready for it. First love yourself and your life that is GIFT given by your parents & God to you, then think of loving somebody else.

Contact me once you become strong, start loving yourself and is ready to face anything and everything in life boldly.

God Bless.

Friends with benefits !

My relationship is not really a relationship its more of a friends with benefits type thing. My fwb and I have been going at it for over a year now. We both talked to people but never had sex with anyone else. About 2 months after I moved in with him (after a year of messing around) I got pregnant. After finding out that he's going to be a father, he still continues to talk to girls. We're together all the time so I know he doesn't really do anything but it still bothers me that he still talks and flirts heavily with these girls! He knows it's wrong because he only does it when I'm asleep and then tries to hide it when I wake up. Or my personal favorite is when he takes a two hour shit when I know he's on his multiple dating sites. So my question to you would be, am I right in getting angry at him? And what should I do about it?

Hi,

If you have a clear understanding that you are in a "Friends with benefits" relation then you shouldn't get emotionally involved. Or else be honest with him and share your feelings for him, probably he might not be knowing what you feel for him.

Hope it helps.

God Bless.
Nick

Long Distance Love

Hello.I'm a 20yr old girl...I was in a relationship for a year which was a long distance relationship(another state).It was going very good in the beginning till 1yr.We both are of same cast and all.I was really very happy with him and could see him as my life partner.But with time he started to be busy and ignorant.He hardly replied to my messages and calls.He never replied me properly.I was really addicted to his chats and talks and when suddenly it stopped I was moved.It made me very sad.I asked him why he wasn't replying...He never gave a proper reason.I love him a lot and cannot think of loosing him....I cannot imagine anybody else in place of him....I got angry to him at times when he didn't reply...I now regret all those things...I want him back...I want the good old days back....Plz help me.....What can I do to get him back?


Hi,

If you opt for a long-distance relationship then be prepared for such situations. First of all try to give him space, he might be really busy. I think its your possessiveness, that is creating an issue. Its absolutely ok to be possessive but the problem starts when you start having negative feelings along with being possessive. You might be probably thinking that he is involved with somebody else, and this might be making you insecure.

Trust your partner completely, if he is yours he will be yours. And for the anger you expressed, it is normal and apologize for your deeds and try not to contact him for few days if he doesn't reply.

Love yourself girl, you will automatically love everything around you.

Hope it helps.

God Bless

Love Lost

Hi I am 22 year old girl. I am B-Tech student. I have been in a relationship from 2 years. I love him a lot. But the problem is my parents doesn't like this relationship. I want my parents in my life as well as my boyfriend. He is a typical man. I am unable to convince him, I give preference to my parents first in my life. I want him to get out of my life because he doesn't respect my parents. But he is not gonna go from me.
Please suggest me a solution so that he could leave me forever, because I donot love him any more.

Hi,

Just speak to him, that even if both of continue the relationship it will be just for name-sake as there is no love from your side. The whole point in a relationship is to have reciprocating feeling and trsut, if either of them is lost then relationship gets weak and eventually dies.

You will have to make him understand that, continuing this relationship will only hurt both of you and will spread to your family members as well. Talk & get it resolved, I am confident that you will be able to reslove it.

Hope it helps.

God Bless !


Love - Mistake - Persistence

i love a girl she is basically a junior colleague of mine, i proposed her but due to initial involvement of too many colleagues, making mockery of her, me then persuading her for me spoiled the relation . i got depressed and kept on persisting and she kept on denying and telling she is not comfortable. some of my acts in depression were extremely emotional. it is eight months now and
i feel she took my depression as a negativity in my personality and my persistent efforts as weakness, she told several time it is infatuation. she blames me though never disclosed for initial discomfort too her. i love her truly and want the things to be corrected and need a solution which i should follow.please

Hi,

Well I have repeated this many a times -- "if you love something--set it free. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours -- If it comes back--It will always be yours"

If you have the guts to practice a single sided love, do it but I wouldn't recommend it as life is beautiful and there are tons of things to do. 

Try to express your feelings honestly and convince her that you can take care of her. If she agrees, that's the best thing to happen, if she doesn't then start loving yourself, because you are very precious for many other people in your life.

Hope it helps.

God Bless !

I am what I am but...

I am 22 years old and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years. We live in the same house and we have been struggling this summer. One of the problems is that she gets annoyed with me about little things I do. But the bigger problem is that she gets mad that she is annoyed with the things I do and will be mad about it all day which has hurt our relationship. I don't try to annoy her with these things I do, it is just apart of who I am. I have been doing my best to not to do them as often and think of her.
My main question is how do we make a permanent fix? We have talked about this a number of times and we only can think of temporary fixes. She's tried ignoring them and thinking "that's just who he is" but that doesn't seem to work for her.

Nick replies:

Hi,
This is not what I generally suggest but if you feel the girl gets annoyed over things that you do then stop doing it. But before doing it, analyze your deeds and assess whether things you do are right or wrong ? whether things you do is essential or you do it because of your habit.

Understand one thing in life, whatever happens to your life "You" are responsible.

Try to avoid doing things that annoys the girl in your life. If the girl has tried ignoring your deeds and made an effort to work things out then now its your turn to stop doing things that annoy her and when you do it-- do it holistically.

Hope it helps.

God Bless